The Boxing
Lawyer
By James Enelow (Published in Laginappe Magazine)
June 22, 1999
John Green jr. is not a violent man.
He carries himself with a calm demeanor, and he stresses
at all times a non-confrontational manner and an air
of friendliness.
In his line of work he can't afford to be violent.
As a lawyer he spends much of his time preparing and dealing
with domestic cases. As a father he tries to spend time with
his family. Standing 6 foot 2 inches, John's presence fills any
room. His clothing is pristine and he walks with an air of
confidence. On first sight you'd never guess that John's
hobby is boxing.
The story of this boxing lawyer starts in June of '98
when his wife Sara bought him boxing lessons for a birthday present. Green
said, " I'm a big fan of Boxing. I watch all the
pay-per-view events, but I was very surprised when Sara gave
me this gift."
Sara Green, an aerobics instructor and business manager
said, "I'd noticed that John was often very
anxious when he got home from work.
He had a lot of unfocused stress, so I tried to
find an outlet where he could channel his
stress productively."
The outlet came in the form of executive boxing lessons
which are offered by Phil Daley of Daley's Boxing Studio.
For four hundred dollars John would receive
eight one hour lessons beginning in July of 1998.
"I had a lot of trepidation
about going in and getting hit or
getting embarrassed. I was severely out of shape. I must have
weighed 220 pounds at that time." John's
worries were premature because he soon discovered
he would be getting nowhere near the ring. In the beginning
John was trained by Phil to do the basics.
John's first lessons consisted of preparatory exercises. "I had to learn
things like how to throw a punch and other things,
but the real hard part were those warm-up
exercises. I took part in at least ten minutes of shadow
boxing daily and
other exercise which gets you ready for the workout.
The amazing thing about it was that Phil Daley was right
there and he does all the exercises with
you. After four weeks of lessons John signed up for
six more lessons. As time passed then number
of lessons turned from six to eight, then eight to ten and before
long a trip to Daley's studio was part of Green's routine. During
this time Daley trained Phil in body work, the act
of throwing punches to the body .
Green excelled in these
lessons. It wasn't until October of '98 that John made the decision to try sparring.
"For four months I worked
the bag without anybody ever hitting me.
The decision to get in the ring was mine and the only reason I got in there
was because I trusted Phil not to let me get hurt. I was very concerned
with certain things. I didn't want to get hurt or bruised or get a black
eye because as a lawyer my appearance is very
important."
According to Phil Daley, John's decision to enter the
ring was a deciding factor in his evolution. It would be his ability to
take a punch that would be the final
actor. For most of John's sparring sessions he wore a protective
face helmet. Even ith the helmet John would eventually have to take
a punch. "90'70 of the guys who gt
hit the first time quit." said Daley.
During his first session John hit his opponent once.
According to John it was quite shocking the first time
he got hit in the face. In addition to the barrage
of punches and occasional knock downs, John was hit so hard at one
point, he spit his mouth piece 20 feet out of the ring. Daley,
said, "We were really trying to test Little John's ability. to take
a punch. John passed and we had to give him an
A." At the end of John's first sparring session he was so tired
he almost decided not to go back
into the ring again. Green said, "The first time I sparred I remember
saying that it was awful and that I did not want to do it again."
A week later John was back in the ring.
John continued to spar and because of
his tenacity he earned the nickname "Little
John" at Daley's gym. Green said, "When I came back I
started the habit of steady sparring. I took a break over
the holidays but before that I was sparring two or three
rounds." During this time John had various
injuries. "I was struggling with a calcium
deposit and a sprained wrist. In early
January I took on a welterweight who
was 200 pounds, his name was Richard
Gobert, and he's a
professional fighter. By January of '99 Gobert was no longer taking
it easy on me." By this time Green and Daley had
discussed options and they made the decision
to enter John in the Texas Louisiana Toughman Contest. Entering
the contest was easy compared to the preparation
John had to go through to compete
in the contest.
John's weight at the time was 200 pounds and in order to compete
as a light weight he had to get his weight down to 184 or
below.
Before the contest Green was training five
days a week and running on the weekends.
Daley said, "I don't baby my fighters. They have to
do the roadwork and I can't be there to help them do it. They
have to want it bad enough to do it and I know
when they haven't done it and when they are lying."
Because of John's knees he couldn't do the normal running,
but he spent most of his weekends riding a bike.
During sparring sessions, Green trained fighting
many types of fighters. John also had to be trained
to fight one minute rounds where he had
been trained in three minute rounds. By the date
of the Toughman Contest John had over
300 sparring rounds and was forced to endure another
strict code of boxing. For two months
before the fight he was forced to obey the strict code of sexual abstinence.
Green said, "I was always asking Phil if he was joking about
it. Whether or not it makes you stronger
it certainly makes you more cantankerous.
And it gives you a totally different outlook."
When the date of the Toughman Contest came, John weighed
in at 182
pounds. John recalls being excessively nervous. "If your not
nervous before a fight you're stupid. You always have the
pressure of performing in front of people." Careful of John's confidence
Daley and John made a joint decision not to invite a bunch of people. They insisted
on the fact they would only invite their wives.
The rules of the Toughman Contest stated John was not allowed to warm-up or
speak with his trainer before his match.. Moments before the match Daley and
company had been sizing up the competition around John when John's opponent
came onto the scene. "I remember looking around the room saying, John can
beat him and him." When John's opponent appeared he
jumped straight over the ring ropes and
let out a scream. "Here was my opponent, a marine in his early 20's. I
remember thinking I had drawn the toughest opponent there for my first
match." Sara said, "I remember saying," I don't
think that John can beat him."'
When the first round started James Hare,
John's opponent, seriously battered John. "He was one
of those bear-type fighters who tries to do all the damage
in the first round." Most of the round the fighter kept John on
his toes. Sara Green said, "I couldn't watch the
fight. I was chewing my fingernails off. People kept telling
me what was going on because I was looking away." John said of
his opponent, " he was completely willing to destroy
himself to get at me and during the first round I
was
so fed up I literally threw him to get him off of me."
By the second round John's opponent was tired and Green
was better able to note his weaknesses.
Daley said,
"Our strategy in the first round was basically
to survive , stick and move, get points and get out.." To John
it seemed like he might be losing. " I was discouraged, but
by the second round I started to get my feet underneath me."
John didn't know that Daley had sized the kid up by watching
the first round carefully. During the break Phil was
able to instruct John on what to do and by the end of
the second round
John was able to knock his opponent out before the bell signaled
the end of the second round. As John went to his neutral
corner he was unaware he had knocked his
opponent out, but the crowd and everyone else was.
The people watching the fight cheered and
John was congratulated by every person he met and hailed
as the boxing lawyer. He was beaten in his second
match by a an opponent Green speaks highly of. Today John sits comfortable in
his office a good 30 pounds lighter and full of hopes
for the future. According to John, it doesn't
matter that he didn't win the entire competition or that he was beaten in
his second match, but rather that he accomplished something he
set out to do. Green said, ""I've never been
more alive than I was during that round, I accomplished
a great deal of what I wanted to:"
The friendship and relationship formed between
Daily and Green has become one of the most important
aspects of Green's life. "We have dinner
and cookouts together with our families and we're
good friends. We workout and we go
to boxing events together. I'm his boxer, and he's my trainer. I'd do
anything for him that I could... He's my client and I'm his lawyer,"
said Green. That friendship and the confidence he
attained through his experience made the
journey worthwhile and has worked its way into his business life and his
family life.Phil Daley said,
"He's come a long way and my doors open to him always because he's got
balls."
The one message that John wants readers to get from
this article is about the nature of boxing and anger. "Phil
teaches you not to bully and there is no cussing in the gym. I want a
story like this to show all boxers are not like Mike Tyson and all
trainers or promoters are not like Don King. Boxing teaches you self respect,
and it teaches you responsibility and to respect everybody.. The first
guy I fought James Hare I hugged him after the fight and the
other guy i didn't get a chance to hug, but I wished him luck."
For the moment Green is through with
boxing though he continues to go the the
gym two to three days a week The
confidence he earned through his hard knocks in
the ring has put a little more confidence in his step and
strengthened his life with his family. "I do a lot of
domestic cases and some men are abusive.
I always had in the back of my mind, what if someone tried
to attack me or what if they tried to embarrass
me in front of my family., but I hope I never
fight anyone outside of the ring. I handle a lot
of divorce cases and there have been
some
situations where people have threatened me. It
makes you realize you don't have to fight someone,
but in case it ever came to that
I know what to do. That's confidence. This is
the real deal. It's real self defense and it's not theoretical.
I recommend Amateur Boxing Executive Lessons for anyone."
According to Sara Green the quality time at home with
John is by far the best its ever been and he relishes
the time he spends with his son Jack who
has learned to say affectionately and appropriately, "Boom Boom,
Daddy."
"He's so involved in his family. The boxing
has given him a new outlook. I know for
a fact the one hour out of his day that he spends training,
the next three hours he spends with us are quality,
You've got to let your frustrations go.
You might be ruining the quantity out of your day, but it doesn't
matter if the quality goes on, and this is why John is boxing
so I can have a quality life," says Sara Green.
According to his wife there isn't
a bigger female boxing fan around Lake Charles.